The importance of married spouses being friends, even best friends, cannot be overemphasized. John Gottman, a relationship researcher and expert, has found that deep friendship is critical between spouses who want a happy marriage. His research has shown that deep friendships between spouses inspire - greater intimacy, - trust, - and sex. Let's face it, we are all very busy and under stress. Unfortunately, as life happens, our friendship with our spouse may take the back seat